Author Archives: Memoirs of a Mother Queen, Uncensored!

Parenting didn’t come with a manual is an understatement. When I was younger, I never envisioned being a mom let alone a mommy of 4. I thought I’d be a world traveler that taught international finance. But my destiny was preordained, and I had written contracts long before my return. When I began to carryContinue reading “Being a Mommy Guide”

Most Days I sit and I don’t know if I’m supposed to live the super independent woman stage or life, or if I want that old school type of love you see in the movies or like what some of my aunties have or other friends perceive to have. Comparing my life to others sheeshContinue reading “Just A Confused Old 80’s Millennial”

Authentic smiles, laughs and giggles turned into dark isolated self-pity. Where was life headed when one has not spent time to analyze the disconnect. She sits in silence to reflect and attempt to align herself, only to find that the light seemed so distant. She was an empath who felt her moral duty was toContinue reading “Past Hurts and Mental Traumas Turned into Wisdom”

I always been an overthinker, even so as a child. Most nights I rarely sleep; either because I am thinking of an ingenious idea, or I’m engulfed in the past or stressed about the future. Although, it has been a difficult task, I believe I am nearing the point of succeeding this point. My naturopathyContinue reading “Sleep Deprived”

Loading up and tow hitching my Powder Puff Girl AKA my White Dodge Journey to make a huge decision to leave what I known as home, Arizona for 5 and some change years. It wasn’t an easy decision but one that had to be made. Who knew it would be during the rise of theContinue reading “Traveling Nationally During Covid- 19 Pandemic – Roadtrip from AZ to IL”

What is so important that you need to travel during this pandemic? What is wrong with you? Are you willing to put your family at risk all for a trip you can book later? You aren’t taking this serious? Typical millennial always not following precautions…. All questions and opinions that I continuously hear…. Sounds likeContinue reading “Traveling Nationally During Covid- 19 Pandemic”

In the midst of everyone trying to hold it together and get a grasp on things from the sudden change an ruckus of the world; there set a young woman who not only struggled with daily mental battles from worrying about the past but also the stress of her new adversities due to her notContinue reading “Deceit, Lies and Hurt”

As the water runs down my face during my shower; I have a reflective point in my mind of some of the hardest lessons learned in my adult years. One in particular comes to mind, and it is see it through. Originally when I thought of see it through, I always think of staying stillContinue reading “Hardest Lesson Learned”

Be you but with restrictions. Be mindful of your surroundings, speak a certain way, wear your hair a certain way so that you can get your foot in the door. It was okay that I had a creative mind and spirit in the household. It was okay that I was very assertive and bold inContinue reading “PTSD at 33”

She came in quick, quicker than one could imagine. She played the fiddle well, making herself the victim to all parties. She was a true manipulator. See that was familiar for her; making people feel sorry for her, making it seem as if she was the one being attacked or targeted. My mother continued toContinue reading “I Forgive You”